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wardwc1

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Posted - 08/01/2004 :  06:25:31 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I think i have a low self esteem. When i try to hook up with a girl it never seems to work, because i doesn't dear to do much. I just am afraid to touch them. But girls is not the only thing. I am not very social amoung new people, i am afraid to talk to them. If i can avoid a conversation i will. I always say to my self "what will people think of me".
You see it is a big problem. I tought hypnosis could help me with my problem. But i dont know much about hypnosis. To be honest as good as nothing. Is there any possibility that hypnosis could help me. And if so are there any cheap solustions (or maybe free), because i am student and i have not much money. So a real hypnotist is to expensive for me.

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HypnoDoc

USA
365 Posts

Posted - 08/08/2004 :  12:16:33 PM  Show Profile  Visit HypnoDoc's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Hello,

What kind of an expense would ever be "too much" if you could change your whole life for the better? It sounds like you have isolated your problem and know exactly what you want to do to overcome the bad situation. So a visit to a certified Hypnotherapist for a one-on-one session at what-ever the cost would be a good way to change your life.

You may want to start off with a "confidence" audio program to get started but I highly recommend you get some one-on-one help as soon as possible and change your life. The Hypnotherapist can also teach you how to do self hypnosis so you can give yourself helpful suggestions to continue on your path in a positive manner.

Look at the online database here at this web site to find someone in your area of the world.

Stop in again after you have tried some of these suggestions and let us all know how it is going for you.

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anthony

Canada
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Posted - 08/10/2004 :  7:24:18 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
You say," a real hypnotist is too expensive for you", well my question would be, were do you think we might find an unreal one?
You feel uncomfortable as you are, and need to change. Looking in areas were you can't afford to go seems unprofitable to me. Try reading self help books for a start. They are available at the local library free of charge I believe.
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Rudiger650

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Posted - 12/05/2004 :  9:30:54 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I'm the same way, got made fun of by these three girls my first day of sixth grade...and for the rest of that semester, I'm pretty sure that can count as a trauma. Anyway I have an intense fear of being made fun of and handling rejection is quite devastating, these fears perpetuate my lonleyness as I don't come off as very playful or witty when I'm trying to fight the fear. What can be done about this?
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HypnoDoc

USA
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Posted - 12/06/2004 :  2:04:47 PM  Show Profile  Visit HypnoDoc's Homepage  Reply with Quote
During a Hypnotherapy session you might be returned to that day in Sixth Grade to experience that same scene again but this time with the mind of an adult and not a sixth grader. You would then be able to look at the day differently - realize how cruel some children can be - possibly even forgive them for their childish behavior and then move on with your life. Different Hypnotherapists will deal with these issues differently but this is a very typical thing and Hypnosis is perfect for this type of situation. Pick up a relaxation therapy tape or MP3 and just take a test drive.

Once you have decided to take on this issue and make it a part of your past, then contact a local professional and spend a few sessions changing the way you look at that day and your life. You will find the cost / investment is a small one compared to the alternatives.

I hope this helps.

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anthony

Canada
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Posted - 12/06/2004 :  4:47:23 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
OK the second poster was clearer in his statement as to cause, so let's deal with that. You saw what happened as girls being cruel, and picking on you. I see it very differently, since I know how young girls operate, being a grandfather with four grandaughters. If a girl is interest in you, she will tease you provided she can get the help of a group of friends. All her friends will indeed cooperate, since one day it will be their turn to require help... You were teased because one at least was interested in you as a boyfriend. Now were is the problem? Even if you aren;t interested it is a compliment not a put down.....
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Rudiger650

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Posted - 12/06/2004 :  5:54:12 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
That certainly makes me feel pretty good, though I have trouble believing it. I'm certain if I'd had a better sense of humor about it back then I would've come out of it feeling better about myself. Its happened on more than one occasion too, and I'd behave the same way, getting angry, taking it too seriously. I wonder though, if I took those insults so seriously back then, then maybe there was something before that, or perhaps i was just too young and vulnerable.

Its also wonderful to hear "Hypnosis is perfect for this type of situation" as there seems to be little more I can do on my own to stop these raging insecurities.

So thanks for instilling for me some hope on this otherwise hopeless day. Now if only my boss would call me back about that time off.
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micosmiling

3 Posts

Posted - 02/02/2005 :  05:46:51 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Hi,
Looking at things from my point of view, I'd seek the help. Not all things can be resolved by laughing. Yes I belive you might well have things that lie deeper inside. I'm on the same path as you but I've decided that I'm going to put my money into hypnosis this time and see how that makes me feel/react.
At the end of the day were all different and that gives us something special over everybody else and that is a ray of sunshine no one can take from us...................damn what if your an identical twin, god not another negative thought to add to my list.
Mico
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mark-gil

United Kingdom
445 Posts

Posted - 02/02/2005 :  12:08:12 PM  Show Profile  Visit mark-gil's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Your problem is an intense fear of rejection and you are intensely self-rejecting and self-critical. However, this information does not help you overcome these fears but does identify them. An experienced and skilled hypnotherapist that specializes in age regression (not past-lives)can help you overcome these fears in just a few sessions.

These are the most destructive beliefs(fixed ideas) that anyone can hold about themselves. You were not born with these fears, the child's interpretations of early experiences and relationships formed them. The key poiont is that now you continue to reinforce them with your thinking, feeling and behaviour. Beg or borrow the money to see a hypnotherapist.

No matter how you feel, you ARE a lovable person!

You deserve love and you are capable of expressing love.
Take action now!!
With Respect,

Gil Boyne
www.gil-boyne.com
[Gil Passed Away May 5, 2010]
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mark-gil

United Kingdom
445 Posts

Posted - 12/11/2005 :  4:10:42 PM  Show Profile  Visit mark-gil's Homepage  Reply with Quote
wardwc1 says---quote---I think i have a low self esteem. When i try to hook up with a girl it never seems to work, because i don't dare to do much. I just am afraid to touch them. I am not very social amoung new people, i am afraid to talk to them. If i can avoid a conversation i will. I always say to my self "what will people think of me".
Response--"Self-esteem is a term created by psychologists that has no meaning. If I tell you that your problem is self-hatred, you would probably deny it. But,it's the truth!
Ask yourself, "who, in all the world,would you treat as meanly as you treat yourself?" The answer,"No One".
You have given away your eyes and your ears.
You continually (in your imagination) see and hear criticism and expect rejection before a word is spoken or a movement made.
You worship the God of what will people think of me?
Jesus said"there are those who have eyes and see not, there are those who have ears and hear not---It is not given unto them to know"!Give up self-sympathy, and deal with your feelings of guilt and shame (real or imagined) Until you do, you'll never find love--only pity and sympathy. You will never get to choose a friend or a lover, you will always be chosen--by those who require a weak and fearful person. Don't listen to advice like there, there dear--everything will turn out all right as soon as" -----
Advice givers are your enemies--they are trying to reassure themselves---You must get professional help.
LIFE IS FOR THE LIVING--YOU CAN GIVE UP THE ROLE OF BEING ONE OF THE WALKING DEAD---(emotionally)-----I hope this will shock you out of some of your false beliefs and keep you awake for a few nights so that you can discover your true and lovable self

With hope and respect for the truth that dwells in all of us.

Gil Boyne

Gil Boyne
www.gil-boyne.com
[Gil Passed Away May 5, 2010]

Edited by - mark-gil on 12/11/2005 4:26:04 PM
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Matrixman

United Kingdom
399 Posts

Posted - 12/11/2005 :  11:23:00 PM  Show Profile  Visit Matrixman's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Advice givers are your enemies--they are trying to reassure themselves.
Hold on is that advice? lol tut tut tut.

If it has consciousness it's already in a trance.
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mark-gil

United Kingdom
445 Posts

Posted - 12/12/2005 :  12:03:38 AM  Show Profile  Visit mark-gil's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Mark-Gil says---Quote--Advice givers are your enemies--they are trying to reassure themselves---You must get professional help

Advice given by family, friends or neighbors (about personal problems)
is most often NOT acted upon. The problem is it allows the person asking for advice to externalize the problem and continue to believe that the answer lies in the mind of another person. The best therapists avoid giving advice. They understand that it is the client's life and they must avoid taking responsibility for
client's life decisions based on their advice. The best therapist know that giving advice (telling a client what they SHOULD do)is always counterproductive. They help the client to make the discovery that an Inner Creative Intelligence KNOWS the answers. The truth is always within. When the client says, "I just realized that----------" it is the result of good therapy.
With Respect, Gil Boyne

Gil Boyne
www.gil-boyne.com
[Gil Passed Away May 5, 2010]
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Matrixman

United Kingdom
399 Posts

Posted - 12/12/2005 :  01:42:21 AM  Show Profile  Visit Matrixman's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Hi Gil,

Thanks for you clarification, I apologise, for omitting the “You must get professional help” which is by far the most important part of your message.

If it has consciousness it's already in a trance.
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